It’s a gay time in New York

Paola Perez, left, and her partner Linda Collazo, march in the annual Gay Pride parade in Greenwich Village, Sunday, June 26, 2011 in New York. One of the world's oldest and largest gay pride parades was expected to become a victory celebration Sunday after New York's historic decision to legalize same-sex marriage. The law signed by Gov. Andrew Cuomo on Friday doesn't take effect for 30 days. (AP Photo/Mark Lennihan) (AP Photo/Mark Lennihan)

It was a weekend of wedding proposals, wedding plans and earnest thanks. The hard-won right to same-sex marriage in New York state gave way to joyous thoughts of trips down the aisle becoming a reality, not just a dream, for many thousands of gay couples.

“New York has sent a message to the nation,” Gov. Andrew Cuomo said Sunday before the colorful extravaganza that is New York City‘s annual gay pride parade. “It is time for marriage equality.”

When Cuomo signed the gay marriage bill just before midnight Friday, New York became the sixth and largest state in the country to legalize gay marriage, reinvigorating the national gay rights movement that had stalled over a nearly identical bill in New York two years ago. The 33-29 vote by the state Senate followed days of contentious negotiations, the courting of undecided Republicans and opposition from influential religious groups. Pending any court challenges, the law takes effect in 30 days.

“We’ve been waiting to get married in Central Park for years, and now we got here just in time for history to be made,” said Bryce Croft of Kettering, Ohio, who attended the parade festivities with her partner, Stephanie Croft.

The two women are not yet legally married although they share the same name, and they are in the process of moving to New York and getting married. They were in a Manhattan restaurant late Friday when they learned that the bill had passed.

“We cried over dinner, right into the mozzarella sticks,” Stephanie Croft said, adding that they had already selected a spot in Central Park — the boulder she had marked with Bryce’s name two years ago.

As he joined the parade procession, John Haracopos wore a T-shirt that declared, “Some dudes marry other dudes. Get over it.” He and his partner regard the new law as a legal rubber-stamping of what they did years ago.

“We got married in the oldest church in Paris. And it was just us and God,” said Haracopos, a 46-year-old hair stylist. Still, the pair plans to hold another ceremony in New York to ensure their relationship is fully recognized by the law.

His partner, Peter Marinos, a 59-year-old Broadway actor, wore a T-shirt of his own that said, “Marriage is so gay.”

“Thank you, Governor Cuomo” and “Promise kept” read signs lining both sides of Manhattan’s Fifth Avenue.

“I’m really, really proud of New York,” said Hannah Thielmann, a student at Fordham University in the Bronx who attended with her girlfriend, Christine Careaga.

The couple, both 20, were dressed as brides, with Careaga in a white veil and Thielmann wearing a black top hat and a sash that said, “Bride to Be.”

Careaga said her mother called her crying tears of joy after the New York Senate voted on the marriage bill.

“Every mother wants her child to be happily married,” Careaga said.

Same-sex marriage licenses also are granted by Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire and Vermont, plus Washington, D.C., and the Coquille Indian Tribe in Oregon.

“This year’s gay parade is different — it’s electric!” said Mayor Michael Bloomberg‘s longtime companion, Diana Taylor. “You can really feel it, it’s so exciting.”

Cuomo marched with his girlfriend, Food Network personality Sandra Lee, Bloomberg and openly gay elected officials, including New York City Council Speaker Christine Quinn and state Assemblyman Daniel O’Donnell — Rosie O’Donnell’s gay brother — who introduced the bill last month.

Police Commissioner Ray Kelly marched at the head of a group of gay NYPD officers, right behind the official police band. At the end of the parade, a female officer proposed publicly to her fiancee, also an officer, who accepted. They quickly vanished into the crowd.

New York’s parade ended near the site where gays rebelled against authorities and repressive laws outside the Stonewall Inn in Greenwich Village on June 28, 1969 — an event that gave rise to the gay rights movement.

“If New York can do it, it’s all right for everyone else in the country to do it,” Cuomo said before the parade.

Copyright © 2011 The Associated Press

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4 Responses to "It’s a gay time in New York"

  1. woody188  June 27, 2011 at 11:15 am

    Did somebody order a hot-button issue to make us forget about wars and the economy?

    • Carl Nemo  June 27, 2011 at 11:54 am

      Looks that way Woody. This same sex marriage crowd won’t be ecstatic when their cities are going up in flames due to their government’s profligacy relative to irresponsible spending and adventuristic wars in far off places. The American people have their priorities all screwed up.

      The big problem with same sex marriage is that it’s creating a “special class of citizens” who want to enjoy all the benefits of conventional marriage vows and the social contracts associated therewith. It first starts with affirming a simple ritual, but eventually makes its way into the tax base.

      This country cannot afford the luxury of providing such benefits to all. This means that anyone of the same sex can get married then file taxes jointly, adopt children, utilize medical benefits designed for families and worm their way into an already toppling tax base nationwide. People simply don’t get the fact that the luxury of engaging in ‘eccentricities’ costs big bucks in the end.

      No matter, this nation his headed to the bottom; not if, but simply how soon. : |

      Note: I’m not anti-gay, but am against any social contrivance that will eventually stab the rest of the populace in the wallet taxwise.

      Carl Nemo **==

  2. logtroll  June 28, 2011 at 7:57 am

    Cap’n,

    I understand you to be saying that you would ban all marriage? That’s a novel and ballsey proposal! Have you run the numbers?

    • Carl Nemo  June 28, 2011 at 12:26 pm

      Hi logtroll,

      I don’t think of conventional marriage as unworthy of public support via the tax base; but, when you think of it though, it might be a good idea to end civil marriages which is linked to lining the pockets of bottom-feeding divorce attorneys.

      Based on the high level of failed marriages it seems the ritual of getting ‘hitched’ is both foolish and spendy. It surely is cheap to get married, but very spendy to part. When I see young women with their wedding planners, I always add some ‘dark humor’ by asking if they have their divorce papers filled out as an addendum. They get somewhat squiggle- lipped, but sure enough many of them are now divorced as I predicted within less than two years along with a child. Ouch!

      The cause of most divorces are money problems, immaturity and infidelity not necessarily in that order or a combination of the three. As far as gay/lesbian marriages the odds are even greater for a breakup because it’s a synthetic marital relationship. I know and have known gay men and women and they seem to enjoy hopping from one partner to another. Then again, maybe marriage will ‘settle them down’ a bit. / : |

      My wife and I will have been married 46 years this August. We didn’t have children, therefore no grandchildren. Maybe that’s the secret to getting along in a longterm relationship. It’s those doggone lil’ anklebiters and associated money problems that does most modern marriages in. We’re certified dinosaurs soon to become extinct. : )

      Carl Nemo **==

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